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Berko, R. M., Aitken, J. E., & Wolvin, A. D. (2010). ICOMM:  Interpersonal concepts and competencies. Lanham, MD: Rowman & Littlefield.

CHAPTER 7 Beginning, Maintaining and Ending Relationships - Activities - PowerPoint - Quiz

 

BEGINNING, MAINTAINING AND ENDING RELATIONSHIPS

 

LEARNING OUTCOMES

 

            This chapter examines the role of communication in beginning, maintaining, and ending interpersonal relationships.  Specifically, the objective of the chapter is for you to learn to:

 

            •Explain that relationship beginnings, maintenance and endings vary greatly.

            •Define and illustrate the roles of task-orientation, friendship-orientation, and intimate-orientation in relationships.

            •Recognize the high levels of uncertainty when people meet for the first time.

            •Define love as it relates to intimate relationships.

            •Explain that culture influences nearly every aspect of relational development.

            •List and explain each of the sequential patterns of relationship beginnings, maintenance and endings.

            •Explain and illustrate why people are attracted to each other.

            •Describe the process of meeting potential relational partners.

            •Define and illustrate cyber-meeting/cyberdating, including fee-based relational, introduction services, speed dating, matchmaking and relational coaching.

            •Explain how to initiate relational communication.

            •Clarify how to maintain a relationship.

            •Explain the concept of right brain/left brain thinking in relationships.

            •Analyze the stages and reasons for ending a relationship.

 

CHAPTER 7

 

BEGINNING, MAINTAINING AND END RELATINSHIPS

 

LEARNING OUTCOMES

THE ROLE OF CULTURE IN RELATIONSHIPS

RELATIONAL DEVELOPMENT:  BEGINNING, MAINTAINING AND ENDING

            BEGINNING A RELATIONSHIP

                        ATTRACTIVENESS

                        PROXEMITY

                        FAMILIARITY

                        SELF-ESTEEM ENHANCEMENT

                        MEETING POTENTIAL RELATIONAL PARTNERS

                                    CYBERDATING

                                    PERSONAL ADS

                                    FEE-BASED INTRODUCTION SERVICES

                                    SPEED DATING

                                    MATCHMAKING

                                    RELATIONAL COACHING

                                    INITIATING RELATIONAL COMMUNICATION

            MAINTAINING A RELATIONSHIP

                        ACHIEVING YOUR OBJECTIVES

                                    SELF-DISCLOSURE

                                    COMPLIANCE GAINING

                        RIGHT BRAIN/LEFT BRAIN THINKING IN RELATIONSHIPS

            ENDING A RELATIONSHIP

ALTERNATE WAYS OF EXAMING RELATIONAL STAGES

COMMUNICATION AND RELATIONAL STAGES

KEY TERMS

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